Existential Kink
 
Unmask Your Shadow. Reclaim Your Power. Transform Your Reality.
What if the patterns you say you hate… are secretly serving you?
 
In Existential Kink, Carolyn Elliott offers a provocative and liberating approach to shadow work that challenges everything you’ve been taught about manifestation, self-sabotage, and personal growth. Instead of fighting your fears, suppressing your “negative” emotions, or trying to force positivity, Elliott invites you to explore a radical idea:
At some unconscious level, you may be enjoying the very experiences you consciously want to escape.
 
Through humor, psychological insight, and powerful practical exercises, Existential Kink teaches you how to uncover the hidden desires fueling unwanted patterns—and how to transform them through awareness rather than resistance.
 
Inside, you’ll discover:
Why traditional self-help and “positive thinking” often fails
How unconscious desire shapes your reality
A step-by-step process for working with shadow material
How to dissolve self-sabotage by embracing what you’ve been avoiding
A radically empowering view of responsibility and freedom
 
This book is bold, irreverent, and not for the faint of heart. But for those willing to look honestly at the shadow, it offers a pathway to profound liberation.
 
If you’re ready to stop fighting yourself and start reclaiming your hidden power, Existential Kink is a game-changing read.